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Get Off Your Suffering Cross

Nancy Joy - Monday, April 30, 2012

 Bimini Dolphin Free Swim    July 22-27, 2012

Reflections    

April 30, 2012

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"Get off the suffering cross and take effective action in the world."  Hand Clow

I have been re-listening to Tolle’s audio book New Earth recently and I am always amazed what I learn that I evidently wasn’t ready to hear the first time around.  As I read Hand Clow’s recent quote, it dovetailed perfectly into one thing I integrated from New Earth the second time around.

Tolle says that the ego is a construct of the 3rd dimension.  That it is necessary to create form and that ego needs to attach itself to something “real” to give it existence.  In a universe that is truly made up of vibration and frequency as we now know, it is our mind that gives things solidity and makes them “real” for us and it is the ego’s job to keep you in this 3D world so naturally the ego has an agenda. Without our attachments, it could not exist.

One of things that ego attaches it’s self to is our emotions and especially those we are “addicted” to.  This was a big breakthrough for me in my own life but even more poignantly for some friends and clients (to me one and the same for the most part).  The ego constantly needs attention and validation and most often unconsciously, when we have an experience that creates attention (the mind and ego do not differentiate between positive and negative) the ego keeps creating more similar experiences and emotions to attract more attention. When this is unconscious as it usually is and when you don’t know how to use your emotions constructively to move you forward (most don’t…Try my book The Wounded Heart  to learn how) you become stuck in the ego’s repeated loop to give it validity.

 I have one friend I have worked with for years now who has been in physical pain almost her entire life and it has been so hard to find the key to helping her shift this reality.  Although she has long periods now that are not so painful, she always seems to loop back to extreme pain and no one can find the medical cause. (Heard that one before!)   This friend is one of many children in an Iowa farm family.  Her next sibling was born only 10 months after she was and had some issues that required lots of attention.  At around 2 years of age she was run over accidentally be a tractor and suffered tremendous pain.  From that point on it was a series of accidents, broken bones, surgeries, hip replacements and on and on taking her well into her 60’s.

I realized that subconsciously her Ego was creating the pain to get attention.  It was a difficult thing to share with her and even though it didn’t feel right she decided to remain open and explore. She began to acknowledge her pain and re- program her mind to see the pattern thus beginning to erode ego’s ability to attract these experiences to get attention.  Within a few weeks she has been experiencing far less pain and she told me recently that she knows this is right.  The hardest thing was owning it.  You can’t change it until you own it. 

Check out this week’s video to learn more.  If you or someone you love seems to be in a relentless cycle of poverty, illness, pain or just plain bad “luck” see if this understanding may help to begin to shift the “ground hog day” pattern and thus the symptoms of Ego Attachment as I have now come to call it.  Two other Reflections videos you may find helpful are linked below. Have a great May Day and I will visit again next week.

Are You Stuck in Your Story

Ego Revisited

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Hello-Goodbye-Hello

Nancy Joy - Monday, April 23, 2012

Bimini Dolphin Free Swim    July 22-27, 2012

Reflections    

April 23, 2012

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When old words die out on the tongue, new melodies break forth from the heart; and where old tracks are lost, new country is revealed with its wonders.

~Rabindranath Tagore   Quote from “Praying Our Goodbyes” by Joyce Rupp

This quote came today from my friend Mary Kirkpatrick who shares with us Messages from Giai.  Her message today was profound so I share the link below for all of you to enjoy as it may touch you as deeply as did me.  Message from Giai Hello-goodbye-Hello

Those who have listened to my posts for a while are familiar with some of the “goodbyes” I have experienced with close, spiritual and heart friends of mine particularly over the past three years.  With another “event” on the horizon, I have begun to integrate this more deeply into the fabric of my very being.  Although my mind knows that with each “good-bye” whether through death, divorce or just plain moving on comes new doorways of opportunity, as Tagor says…new countries revealed.  Mary called her message Hello-Goodbye-Hello.

I have discovered that some of these event horizons bring new experiences, relationships and sometimes new forms of old relationships into my life.  It is often exhilarating and yet deeply emotional at the same time.  What struck me this morning is that lately; these shifts have brought a more subtle new relationship and very best friend into my life… me.  I realized as I mourned the newest “loss” that who has benefited the most from these life changes has been and is me.  I have developed the gift now of not rushing to fill the void left by this natural life rhythm.  In the still spaces and feelings between the goodbye and the next hello I have said hello to myself and in the comfort of my silence I have experienced hidden diamonds and a contentment that helps me create new realities and manifest my dreams.  Let’s cherish the flow, the sweet goodbyes complete with all their beauty and grief and the new hellos poignant with possibility and expansion and in the mix, don’t forget that it’s really all about you.  The beautiful reflections, the depth, the memories, the feelings and emotions all tides ebbing and flowing to honor your own uniqueness for you to appreciate.

DOLPHINS  July 22-27, 2012  Join the dolphins, Nancy Joy and Ezekiel as we open our hearts and welcome the new consciousness during the powerful  Heliacal Rising of Sirius (the extraterrestrial home of the Cetaceans) at Sunrise July 26.  To find out more and register: Bimini Dolphin Free Swim

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Woman + Man = Wholeness

Nancy Joy - Monday, April 16, 2012

Reflections

April 16,2012

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Women are the custodians of love, family, and relationships.  When women stop being women, I don’t think it an exaggeration to say we are all lost.  Woman remind men of what’s important in life.  Woman hold the wisdom of the heart and inspire men to act from their hearts.  John Gray PhD from Venus on Fire/Mars on Ice

If there is one thing I have learned over my life, we will never be happy people  as long as we need someone to change to make us happy.  John Gray’s book is a masterpiece at taking apart the dynamics of relationships (men and woman in this case) and holding up a mirror for you to see.  As my husband Mark and I shared while I was reading this book last year, we really clarified the majority of our disagreements came from an expectation that we should be other than just who we are, a man and a woman.

We are each searching for the lost parts of ourselves.  I believe at one time in our physical experience we were neither male nor female. Before creation was split into duality, we simply were the I am presence.  It has been and is a long and arduous journey back into our knowing, integration and unity.  During this time each divided part or opposites held a field for the other to find themselves.  This was absolutely necessary and still is.  Its time to find the joy in our mates and move from blame.  What ever you are experiencing you attracted it. 

So, don’t you suppose its time to stop hanging out in our differences and embrace our own unique beauty to bring us back into wholeness?  If you are a woman struggling to fit into a man’s world, it time to realize that the more you struggle the less authentic you are. The more unhappy you will be. It’s a world of integration.  If on the other hand you are man trying to be the emotional, nurturing being your wife craves, stop struggling.  Simply put, it’s time to embrace you and accept your partner’s opportunity to do the same.  In this way you bring peace to your relationship and to this planet.

I highly recommend this book to anyone out there struggling in their partnerships and intimate relationships.  At least, once you own your own feelings and no longer make an other responsible for them… from that point of acceptance… you can choose to move out of the relationship if that is best for you or into expanded acceptance and intimacy.  You can’t make a change repeating the same behaviors.  Ezekiel calls this being stuck in the loop.  Next week, will highlight the profound beauty of the male in our lives. 

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DOLPHINS  July 22-27, 2012  Join the dolphins, Nancy Joy and Ezekiel as we open our hearts and welcome the new consciousness during the powerful  Heliacal Rising of Sirius (the extraterrestrial home of the Cetaceans) at Sunrise July 26.  To find out more and register: Bimini Dolphin Free Swim

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Freedoms Just Another Word!

Nancy Joy - Monday, April 09, 2012

 

Bimini Dolphin Free Swim The Spotted Dolphins are Calling Us!  7/22-27/2012

Reflections   

Nancy Joy's Video

April 9, 2012

“Freedoms just another word for nothing left to loose.  Nothing means nothing honey if it ain’t free.”     

Janis Joplin from the song “Me and Bobby McGee”

 I was watching an interview on You Tube a few days ago and this phrase from an old 60’s Janis Joplin song was mentioned. It stuck in my mind and my heart.  All week I have been singing that tune.  As I delved into its message, I realized how powerful and accurate this wisdom is.  For example, if we are responding to a person or situation in a way to avoid being rejected, we are not free.  If you dread paying your mortgage every month to keep that great house, you are not free.  If you get up every morning wishing you didn’t have to experience this day, you are not free.

 Of course, nothing changes in an instant but this a good place to start this Monday morning.  Identify just one place where you are keeping yourself in prison rather then letting go of something your mind pattern thinks you need.  It can be something small like having lunch with someone you really would rather not see or something big like a thought that you are not safe financially if you take that trip you are longing to take or leave your abusive job in an economic downturn.

 Things are changing.  Let’s not just talk about freedom but consciously start creating it in our own lives.  Freedom is not a right it is a choice and it is one only you can make for yourself. One step at a time and we will arrive at a new level of freedom.

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DOLPHINS  July 22-27, 2012  Join the dolphins, Nancy Joy and Ezekiel as we open our hearts and welcome the new consciousness during the powerful  Heliacal Rising of Sirius (the extraterrestrial home of the Cetaceans) at Sunrise July 26.  To find out more and register: Bimini Dolphin Free Swim

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Fetal Stem Cells - Cath The Magic!

Nancy Joy - Monday, April 02, 2012

 Bimini Dolphin Free Swim The Spotted Dolphins are Calling Us!  7/22-27/2012

Reflections

March 26, 2012

Nancy Joy's Video

"They've been called magic seeds. They have the potential to cure disease, regenerate organs, and even prolong life. And they could completely alter the way we practice medicine" - Fortune Magazine

Of course Fortune Magazine is referring to fetal stem cells and their ability to cure and heal the human body.  Can you imagine a world with very little disease, painful surgeries, toxic drugs or illness?  Well, I can and have.  In my heart I have always known that just as in nature, the cure we need is always right at hand.  In this case in the human body and in it’s ability to create, lays our ability to create a new reality.

Bear with me here.  I have known this in my heart about the fetal stem cells potential to change our lives but I just recently finished the most amazing book by Dr. William C Rader called Blocked in the USA- The Stem ell Miracle.

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I learned about fetal stem cells inside and out and read first hand accounts of some of over 1500 cases of amazing healing from such horrendous health challenges as HIV, Parkinsons, Heart Disease, Cancer, Autism, Cerebral Palsy, Alzheimer’s, Stroke, Epilepsy, Aging and on and on the list goes.  This is 2012 and it is the age of awakening.  All things hidden shall be revealed and this is surely one of them.  No wonder fetal stem cells have been locked in the shroud of the Christian Right to Life, and the medical and pharmaceutical industries attempt to block the awakening.  I suggest you learn the truth about where fetal stem cells can come from and that just one fetus from a still birth or miscarriage can help 1 million people lead pain free, happy healthy lives.  It is actually as simple as an organ donation from loss of life.

Anyway, moving on here.  Only fetal stem cells (those cells creating the new human inside the womb) are pluripotent free agents, meaning that these are the ONLY cells that contain the entire “database” of the human body. They have the ability to become any of the bodies 220 cell types.  Also these fetal cells have a telomere which is like a protective arm at the end of a chromosome that protects the cell from injury.  That’s enough medical jargon, but please do read the book and pass it on to anyone you know working through health challenges at this time.  The wave of truth will win out in the end.

Now, here is the mirror that I was given as I compared the fetal stem cells with us.  In a sense, we have the opportunity to know how, through our expanded consciousness and connection to source, to create a new, healthy reality that will take down the old systems that are destroying our bodies, our minds and our planet. I see us as remembering who are in our purest form…  original cells with the capability to extend our telomeres which are our awakened minds and connection to source and form the blue print within our hearts, create the new.   Maybe this is a stretch for some of you, but I became so impassioned as I read this book and this was followed by visions and dreams of those cells within my brain expanding reality as we know it, I just had to share.  There is a message and a reflection in everything.

We live in the most exciting of times and we are the creators that can choose to act as these fetal stem cells and create anew from our original blue print.  Did you know that the first human organ formed from the original zygote of human creation is the heart?  It is all of who we are.  I hope you will take a moment to feel this opportunity and see it as yourself as you we were truly always intended to be…happy, healthy creators.  Be sure to read Dr Rader’s book  and Catch the Magic!  Have a great week.

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DOLPHINS  July 22-27, 2012  Join the dolphins, Nancy Joy and Ezekiel as we open our hearts and welcome the new consciousness during the powerful  Heliacal Rising of Sirius (the extraterrestrial home of the Cetaceans) at Sunrise July 26.  To find out more and register: Bimini Dolphin Free Swim

 EGYPT    Where will you be December 21, 2012?   Dec. 16-23

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December 21, 2012 Heartlights Journey

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 


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