Women are the custodians of love, family, and relationships. When women stop being women, I don’t think it an exaggeration to say we are all lost. Woman remind men of what’s important in life. Woman hold the wisdom of the heart and inspire men to act from their hearts. John Gray PhD from Venus on Fire/Mars on Ice
If there is one thing I have learned over my life, we will never be happy people as long as we need someone to change to make us happy. John Gray’s book is a masterpiece at taking apart the dynamics of relationships (men and woman in this case) and holding up a mirror for you to see. As my husband Mark and I shared while I was reading this book last year, we really clarified the majority of our disagreements came from an expectation that we should be other than just who we are, a man and a woman.
We are each searching for the lost parts of ourselves. I believe at one time in our physical experience we were neither male nor female. Before creation was split into duality, we simply were the I am presence. It has been and is a long and arduous journey back into our knowing, integration and unity. During this time each divided part or opposites held a field for the other to find themselves. This was absolutely necessary and still is. Its time to find the joy in our mates and move from blame. What ever you are experiencing you attracted it.
So, don’t you suppose its time to stop hanging out in our differences and embrace our own unique beauty to bring us back into wholeness? If you are a woman struggling to fit into a man’s world, it time to realize that the more you struggle the less authentic you are. The more unhappy you will be. It’s a world of integration. If on the other hand you are man trying to be the emotional, nurturing being your wife craves, stop struggling. Simply put, it’s time to embrace you and accept your partner’s opportunity to do the same. In this way you bring peace to your relationship and to this planet.
I highly recommend this book to anyone out there struggling in their partnerships and intimate relationships. At least, once you own your own feelings and no longer make an other responsible for them… from that point of acceptance… you can choose to move out of the relationship if that is best for you or into expanded acceptance and intimacy. You can’t make a change repeating the same behaviors. Ezekiel calls this being stuck in the loop. Next week, will highlight the profound beauty of the male in our lives.
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